In an era of narrow viewpoints, wannabee Paris Hilton's and The Jersey Shore, where the most popular singers talk about "brushing your teeth with a bottle of jack," where we have more degrees, but less sense of life, where we've forgotten how to laugh, but know how to send a text message, we've lost the real shit in life that reminds us how to breathe. I had to keep my sanity somewhere, so here it is: The Real Shit. A blog with REAL music, inspiration, and advice.
Saturday, March 30, 2013
Artist Of The Day: Macklemore
On November 6, 2011 I posted about "Macklemore" and how he was a refreshing breathe of air. I predicted he would get big, and now here he is in 2013 at #1 on music charts. Don't want to say I told you, but, I told you so. Ben Haggerty aka "Macklemore" still is a breathe of fresh air. I posted about his song "And We Danced" back in 2011, but I wanted to post it again, along with his new song "Can't Hold Us." Both should be added to your party or work out playlists.
"Can't Hold Us" "And We Danced"
22 important lessons i've learned in 22 years.
So, I turned 22 a few weeks ago. Didn't make a big hype about it, because 22 kind of sucks. If you've had your act together thus far, you'll probably be graduating college at 22. That fact alone makes turning 22 not so celebratory. I know in a few years I'll be looking back and saying "Ahh...22. Those were the days." So i'm trying to stay as positive as possible. I had a 9 hour travel day back from my spring break trip to Puerto Rico, and I just started to think about everything I've learned in the past 22 years. I know I have a lot more to learn, but at this point in my life I feel like I've learned some very valuable lessons. So here is my list of 22 valuable life lessons. Some more serious than others, but all equally important.
1. God has a plan. There is no use in being anxious and worrying about something, because ultimately, it's in God's hands. (Hardest lesson I've had to learn)
2. If a guy invites you over to watch a movie, he doesn't just want to watch a movie.
3. Save your money. As much as I love to online shop and "have" to have the newest bag, I don't. I used to see a $500 bag as just a new, cute birthday purchase. Now, that is about half a months rent. Yeah, you get that harsh reality when you turn 22. You'll be happy you saved your money in the long run.
4. Be your own best friend (One of the most valuable lessons I've learned). You have to learn to love yourself.
5. A good night sleep and hot shower are the two best cures for anything. Every problem looks better in the morning.
6. Take care of yourself, you only get one body. Be grateful for your health, a lot of people wish they had it.
7. Keep face to face conversation alive, and get off your damn phone. I'm so guilty of this, but we live in a generation where you go to dinner with friends and everyone is on their phone. Put the phone away, have yourself a conservation, and only use your phone when you really need to.
8. Tell the people you care about, I love you. We get so caught up in our lives, that we forget a lot to remind those special people in our lives just how much we love them. You'll regret it someday if you don't.
9. The only approval you need in life is your own. You will be judged and criticized your whole life.
10. Patience is key in life.
11. If a girl didn't have friends in high school, it was for a reason. Stay away.
12. Never trust a guy who likes and comments on every girls Instagram/Facebook picture.
13. Chase after your goals. As cliche as it sounds, if you don't have a goal to chase, your soul dies. My goals are my fuel to do better each day.
14. Good music, good food, and good friends. 3 essentials in life.
15. If you don't like a menu get up. If you don't feel right about something, change it. Sometimes you have to be selfish in life.
16. You're your own best PR. Watch what you put on social media. You're publicizing yourself, so make it good.
17. Stay true to yourself. Just because the crowd is doing it, doesn't mean it's right or you.
18. See live music. It can change your life.
19. Travel. Life is too short to stay in one bubble your whole life (I'm working on this).
20. Designate "me" time in your week. Having time to yourself is very important to staying sane.
21. A guys intentions are never good after 12am.
22. Remember to laugh.
So those are a few lessons I've learned in my 22 years of life, and I'm excited to see what other lessons I learn in my new chapter of life after college.
And now a song that will always remind me of my youth: Alright-Supergrass
1. God has a plan. There is no use in being anxious and worrying about something, because ultimately, it's in God's hands. (Hardest lesson I've had to learn)
2. If a guy invites you over to watch a movie, he doesn't just want to watch a movie.
3. Save your money. As much as I love to online shop and "have" to have the newest bag, I don't. I used to see a $500 bag as just a new, cute birthday purchase. Now, that is about half a months rent. Yeah, you get that harsh reality when you turn 22. You'll be happy you saved your money in the long run.
4. Be your own best friend (One of the most valuable lessons I've learned). You have to learn to love yourself.
5. A good night sleep and hot shower are the two best cures for anything. Every problem looks better in the morning.
6. Take care of yourself, you only get one body. Be grateful for your health, a lot of people wish they had it.
7. Keep face to face conversation alive, and get off your damn phone. I'm so guilty of this, but we live in a generation where you go to dinner with friends and everyone is on their phone. Put the phone away, have yourself a conservation, and only use your phone when you really need to.
8. Tell the people you care about, I love you. We get so caught up in our lives, that we forget a lot to remind those special people in our lives just how much we love them. You'll regret it someday if you don't.
9. The only approval you need in life is your own. You will be judged and criticized your whole life.
10. Patience is key in life.
11. If a girl didn't have friends in high school, it was for a reason. Stay away.
12. Never trust a guy who likes and comments on every girls Instagram/Facebook picture.
13. Chase after your goals. As cliche as it sounds, if you don't have a goal to chase, your soul dies. My goals are my fuel to do better each day.
14. Good music, good food, and good friends. 3 essentials in life.
15. If you don't like a menu get up. If you don't feel right about something, change it. Sometimes you have to be selfish in life.
16. You're your own best PR. Watch what you put on social media. You're publicizing yourself, so make it good.
17. Stay true to yourself. Just because the crowd is doing it, doesn't mean it's right or you.
18. See live music. It can change your life.
19. Travel. Life is too short to stay in one bubble your whole life (I'm working on this).
20. Designate "me" time in your week. Having time to yourself is very important to staying sane.
21. A guys intentions are never good after 12am.
22. Remember to laugh.
So those are a few lessons I've learned in my 22 years of life, and I'm excited to see what other lessons I learn in my new chapter of life after college.
Song Of The Day: Next Year (RAC Remix)- Two Door Cinema Club
Surprise, another RAC Remix I love. What a shocker. Seriously can't get enough of it. Good vibes all around with this song. It's definitely more mellow, but perfect for a Saturday afternoon. In case you haven't seen my other hundrends of posts of RAC Remixes, check out their site at rac.fm
Monday, February 25, 2013
My Juicing Craze, And An Amazing Story
One of the things I love best about going home to California is all the fresh produce and farmers markets that are available. You're not considered a "hippy freak" if you like to juice like you are here in Texas. While I was home over winter break, my mom had gotten really into juicing. We would juice every morning and night. I felt such an amazing difference in my body, that I couldn't stop. I felt so much more energized and I no longer needed coffee or tea to get me through the day. I ended up getting my own juicer for Christmas, so I brought my new passion for juicing back to Texas. Thankfully, Fort Worth does have organic food options. I get all my produce at Central Market where they have a really large selection of fresh all organic produce. Today while I was grocery shopping, the most amazing thing happened. I saw an old man with a huge cart that was filled with bulk bags of fruits and vegetables. He had an enormous bag of carrots that looked like he had special ordered. As soon as I saw him I knew he was a fellow juicer. We both were reaching for some ginger, when I asked him if he was juicing. He told me that his wife was diagnosed with breast cancer a few months ago and they decided not to do chemo. Instead, they decided to completely change their diet. They juice several times a day, cut out all red meats, dairy, and processed foods. Want to know what the most amazing part is? Her cancer has shrunk significantly within just 3 months!! I got teary eyed and continued to watch him stalkerishly as he continued to shop. The passion and love he had in his eyes as he was picking out his all organic produce for his wife was really touching. I immediately called my mom and told her. I've always been a strong believer that what you put in your body can directly effect your body more than anything else can. My boyfriend who used to make fun of me for juicing and only wanting to eat all organic, actually is starting to consider the legitimacy and benefits of juicing. I urge all of you, take a look at what you're feeding your body. Juicing has changed my life, and it can change yours too.
Morning Rejuvenation Recipe:
4 large organic carrots
4 organic celery sticks
1 large piece of organic cucumber
1 organic beet
1 organic apple
1 organic grapefruit
1 organic orange
1 small piece of organic ginger
-Enjoy over ice. Serves 2 people or extra for yourself!
Morning Rejuvenation Recipe:
4 large organic carrots
4 organic celery sticks
1 large piece of organic cucumber
1 organic beet
1 organic apple
1 organic grapefruit
1 organic orange
1 small piece of organic ginger
-Enjoy over ice. Serves 2 people or extra for yourself!
Sunday, February 24, 2013
Daily Advice: The Only Approval You Need In Life Is Your Own
Alright, I usually cringe at people who post quotes about "what doesn't kill you makes you stronger" or spill their intimate life details to the social media world. I'm not here to blab and reassure myself that I'm "strong" by writing on my blog. I'm just here to share a few words of wisdom that I had lost sight of for awhile until this past week. We live in a world of insecure people and expectations we are supposed to live up to. No matter where you go, or what you do, you will constantly be judged and criticized. That is just life. What you wear, what you say, what you do, you will never be completely free of judgements unless you allow yourself to be. An experience happened to me this past week that made me more frustrated than I had been in a long time. A picture was sent out by an unknown suspect and that person claimed that the picture was me. Anyone who knows me, knows I have too much self pride and dignity to send a picture like that. If you send a nude picture of yourself to someone in 2013 and don't expect it to be seen by the world, you're an idiot. While growing up, I have constantly been watching what I have on Facebook and any social media sites. You are your own PR, so you better make it good. When I found that someone sent this picture out, and put MY name on it, I was livid. Not only was I livid, but I felt pretty helpless. To be accused of something you didn't do, may be more frustrating than getting accused of something you actually did do. At least if you did it, you can accept it and try to move on from it. But for me, I wasn't going to let this happen. I have worked too hard to get where I am, and I was not about to let some immature guys who can't control their hormones tarnish my name. Long story short, I think I handled it and that rumor is pretty much squashed. But now here I am. Left with a lot of frustration and a whole lot of anger. A part of me is glad that this happened, because it reminded me of who I am. It is so easy to lose yourself and fall into working so hard to create this "image" of yourself. Everyone wants to have the best body, and look their best and I've felt that pressure my whole life. What I realized after this incident though, is no matter what you do, you will be criticized. If you're ugly you'll be criticized for not being pretty enough, if you're blessed with beauty you'll be constantly scrutinized and judged, and if you're cursed with a larger chest like myself, you'll have guys sending out fake pictures of you. It's a loose loose people. That is why you need to realize that the only approval you need in life is your own. You're the best friend you will ever have, and it's time I start remembering that. I have people who I know will always be there for me, but if you can't look in the mirror in the morning and smile at that person looking back at you, then what do you have? Nothing. Accept yourself, and once you do you'll realize none of this bullshit ever really mattered.
Remix of The Day: Mouthful of Diamonds- Phantogram (The Jackals Remix)
Play this loud. That is all...
Artist of The Day: Alabama Shakes
Alabama Shakes everyone. If you haven't heard their music already, then you need to get to listenin'. This rock band originates from Athens, Alabama, where their funk and rock and roll music seems to collide together seamlessly. Lead singer and guitarist Brittany Howard is my idol. Straight up girl power at it's finest. This girl has soul. Get them on your radar. I love when I come across bands like this, it gives me hope for our generation of music.
Hold on- Alabama Shakes
" Bless my heart, bless my soul. I didn't think I'd make it to 22 years old."
-This song is perfect for this time in my life. A lot of stress and a lot of bullshit, but you just got to "hold on."
Always Alright- Alabama Shakes This song + this movie= pure greatness
" Bless my heart, bless my soul. I didn't think I'd make it to 22 years old."
-This song is perfect for this time in my life. A lot of stress and a lot of bullshit, but you just got to "hold on."
Wednesday, February 20, 2013
Song of The Day: Feeling The Landslide ft. Fleetwood Mac & Jay Z
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| The Melker Project has put together some amazing remixes. You usually don't even mess with Stevie Nicks, but this remix has blown my mind. The song isn't on YouTube or iTunes but you can download this whole album for free here on sound cloud. |
Tuesday, February 19, 2013
New RAC Remixes
1. Feed Me Diamonds-MNDR (RAC Remix)
2. Pacific Air- Float (RAC Remix)
3. The Killers- Runaways (RAC Remix)
4. Youngblood Hawke- We Come Running (RAC Remix)
Song Of The Day: Sol- Old Him
This is real hip-hop. Seattle based artist Sol already won me over with his song "Stage Dive," but now he has done it again. His new song "Old Him"is hip hop in it's purest form. If you ask me, he's a breath of fresh air in the regurgitated genre of music we call hip-hop today.
Tuesday, January 29, 2013
"Brew Age"- A beer web series by Michael Baca
Two of the greatest things possible have come together: beer and the art of beer. My long time friend, and San Francisco photographer/videographer, Michael Baca, has just released a new web series he created called "Brew Age." Michael films everyday people who have one thing in common: their love and craft for beer. Make sure to check out this craft beer revolution and while you're at it, check out Michael's website if you want to see some beautiful photography.
Friday, January 11, 2013
3 Biggie Small Remixes You Should Have
Whenever my friends ask me to recommend them some good songs or burn them a CD (yeah, I still do that), I always have to put one of these remixes in. They're just too good. And yes, a 21 year-old blonde white chick can like a little Biggie Smalls. Just listen to these three songs and you'll probably stop judging me.
Thursday, January 10, 2013
Throwback Thursday
In case your iTunes only consists of artists like One Direction, Pitbull, or Kei$ha, I thought I'd do a little throwback of some classic songs that everyone should have, for all of our sake. Sure, there are some great new artists out, but I always find myself going back to the 90s, before dub step and overly processed music. Here are a few "go to's," enjoy them.
Band Of The Day: Imagine Dragons
I had only heard a few songs by Imagine Dragons before I saw them live this past weekend in San Francisco. After seeing them perform live, I've downloaded their entire new album and I can't stop listening to it. This is a band that I would bet money on that they get huge in the next couple of months. In my previous post, "The Best Day Ever," I talked about how myself and friend Suzanne saw them live at The Independent in San Francisco. I've seen a lot of live shows, and this was one of the best I've seen. I've posted 3 of my favorite songs below. Don't forget to add this band to your playlist.
Radioactive- Imagine Dragons
It's Time- Imagine Dragons
Demons- Imagine Dragons
It's Time- Imagine Dragons
The Best Day Ever
There are certain people out there who have a spontaneity about them, that every time you're around them you're bound to have a great time. That is my best friend from high school, Suzanne Cox, in a nut shell. She is one of the only people I know who just does whatever she wants, and I love it. Some of the best times of my life have been with her. No matter how long we go without seeing each other, we pick right back up where we started. Well, Suzanne moved to San Francisco from San Diego recently so I decided to visit her for a weekend while I was home on winter break. And what do you know, I had one of the best nights I've had in a long time. I've always loved the city, but I fell even more in love after this weekend. While I was growing up, I'd go to the city with my parents for some pretty incredible dinners or to see the typical tourist side of San Francisco. However, I got to see a different side of the city this past week, and now I'm actually thinking of applying to a few companies in San Francisco after I graduate. Who would have thought? If you want to have one of the best days of your life, read below:
Saturday we woke up and went to a great restaurant in the mission called Lolo's. If you want a mean sangria and uniquely authentic Mexican food with a flare, check it out. The waiters even comped our dessert. Which made their mini ice cream sandwiches drizzled with warm chocolate even more worth it.
One of the things I love most about San Francisco is how many amazing "hole in the walls" you can discover. After lunch we were driving and saw the cutest coffee shop I have ever seen called Stable Cafe. It just so happened they had a "pie pop up" going on outside the cafe where they had fresh baked pies for sale. We got the BEST slice of key lime pie i've ever had in my life.
After stuffing myself with sangria, tacos, and key lime pie we decided to walk it off and get a little culture. We went to the San Francisco Modern Art Museum, which was unbelievable. We saw artists from Picasso to Matisse to Warhol. It was quite humbling. There are so many different museums in the city, but if you must chose one, SFMOMA should be at the top of your list.
After the museum, we weren't quite ready to go back yet so we went to the Top Of The Mark at the Mark Hopkins hotel for cocktails. The Mark Hopkins is one of the finest historic San Francisco luxury hotels. It was built in 1926, and when you go inside you feel as if you've teleported back to the 20's. That is another great thing about the city of San Francisco, the history. You turn a corner or walk into a building, and you feel as if you've gone back in time. Whether it is the late 60's on Haight street, or a glamorous evening in the 20's at the Mark Hopkins, San Francisco can give you a taste of history. Top Of The Mark has one of the best views in the city. We got a glass of champagne, soaked in the beauty of the city, and pretended we were Bette Davis for a few moments.
And the night hadn't even started. Later that night Suzanne took me to one of the best restaurants I've ever been to. Not to brag, but I've been to some pretty damn good restaurants. I grew up with a father who loves fine food and the art of a tasting menu, so I know good food when I have it. If you're ever in San Francisco, go to Nopa. Their usually booked out a month or two for reservations but they have community seating and a large bar with phenomenal cocktails, which makes the wait very enjoyable. We started out with warm goat cheese with kiwi and asian pear on crostinis, next we got poached farm egg, tasso spiced ham, and sherry onions with frisée and celery root, we then got
flatbread of spicy fennel sausage, romesco, arugula and crescenz. Throw in a few fresh squeezed cucumber lime cocktails, an IPA, and some veggies for good health and you have yourself a meal. Top 5 meals and cocktails of my life without a doubt. I would recommend it to anyone.
After our amazing dinner, we made our way over to The Independent to see the band Imagine Dragons. Along with my expertise in food, I've also seen a lot of live shows. Maybe it was thoughs cucumber lime cocktails that got me, but Imagine Dragons was not only one of the best bands I've seen perform live, but the most fun. The Independent is the perfect size venue, to where you don't have any wannabee punk rock preteens stepping on your feet or getting hit in the face in a mosh pit. I danced for over 2 hours straight, looked like an idiot, and had an amazing time. Check out my upcoming blog post on some of my favorite songs by Imagine Dragons.
We met some people from Cornell University at the venue who were really great, and continued our fun at Madrone Art Bar. It was Michael Jackson and Prince remix night, so things got pretty crazy. Suzanne told me that Madrone often has a "Smiths Remix" night where a DJ comes who remixes a bunch of songs from The Smiths. I'd die to see this.
I had a pretty bad hangover the next morning, but memories that were well worth it. If you haven't been to San Francisco yet, go. It can change your life, and you may just have the best day ever.
Saturday we woke up and went to a great restaurant in the mission called Lolo's. If you want a mean sangria and uniquely authentic Mexican food with a flare, check it out. The waiters even comped our dessert. Which made their mini ice cream sandwiches drizzled with warm chocolate even more worth it.
One of the things I love most about San Francisco is how many amazing "hole in the walls" you can discover. After lunch we were driving and saw the cutest coffee shop I have ever seen called Stable Cafe. It just so happened they had a "pie pop up" going on outside the cafe where they had fresh baked pies for sale. We got the BEST slice of key lime pie i've ever had in my life.
After stuffing myself with sangria, tacos, and key lime pie we decided to walk it off and get a little culture. We went to the San Francisco Modern Art Museum, which was unbelievable. We saw artists from Picasso to Matisse to Warhol. It was quite humbling. There are so many different museums in the city, but if you must chose one, SFMOMA should be at the top of your list.
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| Suzanne posing with a Picasso |
flatbread of spicy fennel sausage, romesco, arugula and crescenz. Throw in a few fresh squeezed cucumber lime cocktails, an IPA, and some veggies for good health and you have yourself a meal. Top 5 meals and cocktails of my life without a doubt. I would recommend it to anyone.
After our amazing dinner, we made our way over to The Independent to see the band Imagine Dragons. Along with my expertise in food, I've also seen a lot of live shows. Maybe it was thoughs cucumber lime cocktails that got me, but Imagine Dragons was not only one of the best bands I've seen perform live, but the most fun. The Independent is the perfect size venue, to where you don't have any wannabee punk rock preteens stepping on your feet or getting hit in the face in a mosh pit. I danced for over 2 hours straight, looked like an idiot, and had an amazing time. Check out my upcoming blog post on some of my favorite songs by Imagine Dragons.
We met some people from Cornell University at the venue who were really great, and continued our fun at Madrone Art Bar. It was Michael Jackson and Prince remix night, so things got pretty crazy. Suzanne told me that Madrone often has a "Smiths Remix" night where a DJ comes who remixes a bunch of songs from The Smiths. I'd die to see this.
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| Us and MJ |
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